Brilliant Birth

Frequently Asked Questions

These are some of the questions which I get asked regularly. If you have any questions which are not answered here then please feel free to contact me.

Why should I hire a birth doula?
Labour, birth and becoming a parent can be daunting experiences. A doula is with you at every step to offer emotional and practical support, explore your birth options and make suggestions to help labour progress. Research* has shown that having a doula can reduce the need for pain relief and increase the likelihood of having a normal birth.
*Mothering the Mother
Klaus, Kennell & Klaus, 1993

Is a doula the same as a midwife?
No! A doula is there to support you through your labour and birth and help you understand your birth choices. She is not able to undertake any clinciall procedures or offer medical advice.

Do I need to be having a home birth to have a doula?
No! Doulas can attend births at home or in hospital. If you are having a hospital birth I would normally come to your home during labour and then transfer to hospital with you once it's time to go in.

What about my partner? Won't a doula take his place?
No! A doula is there to support both you and your partner and doesn't come between you. Sometimes the dad can feel a bit frightened or overwhelmed and a doula's support can be especially helpful.

When should I book my doula?
Most people book their doula between 20 and 28 weeks of pregnancy. If you're further on than this, or you're looking for a postnatal doula and your baby has already been born then please do still contact me - I will do my best to help.

Do you work with a back-up doula in case of emergency?
Yes, I can introduce you to another doula who can attend your birth in the very unlikely event that I'm unable to be there (it's never happened yet!).

What is the difference between a postnatal doula and a matenity nurse?
Maternity nurses usually look after the baby - feeding, changing nappies, sterilising bottles etc. Postnatal doulas nurture the new mum and look after the whole family - making meals, playing with older children, doing housework, changing nappies, as well as looking after the baby so that everyone can enjoy the first few weeks as a family. Although postnatal doulas may be available to work overnight occasionally, generally they work set hours a day rather than living in the family home as a maternity nurse would.